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What does the word “discipline” really mean?
Generally when that word is used we think of child rearing. However, the word discipline is also
referenced when some form of correction is deemed necessary in order to bring
someone back into alignment with established guidelines set by an organization.
Most everyone understands the necessity for
rules, guidelines, some form of system by which a person’s behavior is
monitored and/or goals are accomplished. That is to say, it is a way to hold
people responsible for his/her actions. If everyone did exactly what they
wanted at any given moment without consideration of the consequences on those
around them, in time there soon would be some form of unrest with the masses.
Case in point; consider the violent acts we
witness through reports provided by the media. Obviously, the shooter/stabber/bomber
took action with little regard for the consequences of his/hers choices on those
with which he/she administered specific actions. There certainly was only the
rage within the individual that guided the perpetrator’s actions.
I wonder what the world would look like if we
were taught from birth that every action we take has a consequence? Consider
what parenting would look like if our actions were guided by such a concept,
and, more importantly, imagine how society would “look.”
It is a subtle yet powerful shift from
controlling others by fear of punishment to one that empowers others to pause
and consider their actions before taking an action. It seems to me the power is
in the pause . . . a simple ten-second pause. Would that simple act change the
world?
As in literally everything that happens, it
begins within each individual. Each of us must choose to change the way in
which we exist in the world. What a
concept, to begin looking within our own self first before pointing the finger
at someone else for why the world is in the state of flux it is. What a powerful place to begin; to actually
look inward for the inner wisdom for guidance before asking someone else what
to do. Second opinions are often times helpful; however, seeking answers
outside oneself first does not support the development of self-discipline. Perhaps
when one practices the ten-second pause he/she will find that self-discipline
is all that is needed to create a world that works for everyone. Just something
to consider.