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Here’s something
that has been weaving through my heart and head – the focus on women. Being a
baby boomer I have witnessed the changes from a society where only men were seen
as the leaders to one that embraces the gifts a women has to offer. It has been
interesting to watch women choose careers outside the home, actively stand up
for equality and decide for themselves whether to become a mother. It is no longer a given, it is a choice, and,
rightfully so. A child deserves to come into this world as a gift to their
parents.
During my lifetime I
have watched women come from behind their husbands, stand beside them for a
brief time, then move in front of them. I have witnessed the family dynamics
change as traditional roles “shape shift.”
As is the case for
any thing that changes, the pendulum swings from one side to the other until a
balance is found. What my heart hopes is society stays focused on equality for
all – on the balance.
Of recent, I have
heard people talking about women like they are the answer to our societal
dilemma. The only answer is when every person has respect, compassion and love
for each other. For when there is a “superior” there is an “inferior,” and that
only leads to an eventual up rise.
I hope the women and
men of my generation (and those that come after us) will teach their daughters, sons, granddaughters,
grandsons, nieces and nephews, the importance of respect for the gifts each
individual brings to the world. For that is when harmony will become our balance point, and who doesn't want that?
Lastly, I hear the
use of the expression, Divine Feminine, associated with women only; that shows
a misunderstanding of Divine Feminine. And what about the Divine Masculine?
Well, obviously that’s a topic for another time! Until then, consider your role
in helping your corner of the world truly respect the gifts women and men bring
“to the table” from which the community will feast.
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I had a conversation
with a long time friend I had not talked to in a very long time last evening. While
catching up with each other’s lives we got on the subject of our sons and their
significant others. I must admit it felt both affirming and disconcerting to
have our observations the same.
The world is
changing and with that comes the polar opposite of what has been the norm. We
all know this, and yet, it still touches the human heart when old traditions
that were built on respect take a turn in the opposite direction. We both
decided we loved our sons and whatever journeys they are on, we know, without a
shadow of a doubt they will be just fine.
We know this because
we taught our sons there was something greater then themselves always with
them, to have respect for women, a strong work ethic and to love their family.
We did this with our actions, not just our words. Somehow in that short
five-minute conversation about our sons, my heart found peace.
The rest of the 45
minutes was the usual giggles about the memories of our youth and the humor in
everyday life. Finally we chatted about the grand transitions that come with being a grandmother; being
able to tell it like it really is, the lumps, sags, lines and most of all,
the comfort that comes from finally not really caring what others think … well,
almost!
What I know is life unfolds, and with the love of a true friend, we can laugh, cry, be angry and end up giggling about it all!
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That's a real question . . . Right now, take a look in your wallet. There is a great deal of information about your life in your wallet. For you ladies, look at your wallet, not your whole purse . . . That's a completely different story! Then take a moment to consider what you just discovered about your life. There's something you didn't know about yourself you just realized. Share it if you'd like, or write a note to yourself about it. Every day you have the opportunity to learn something new about yourself, if you take the time to notice.
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"The ability to respond," is the short definition of Responsibility. Having that "gift" insures that no matter what you are confronted with, you will always be able to handle situations. Whether it is to creatively produce an item that inspires others, adds beauty to living space, opens the heart of someone, or it involves coming up with a solution to a situation for yourself or someone else, having the ability to respond makes life bigger!
Imagine if you will what the world would look like if everyone took the time to consider options, organize his/hers thoughts, sit in the quietness of the unknown, and dream. To be responsible means a person has developed those skills. and with that confidence comes a knowing within.
The self-discipline and commitment to develop this skill, coupled with lots of practice, will help the person realize that they are, indeed, brave enough to step outside their comfort zone and venture into new territory . . . whatever that territory may be. Who knows, being responsible may mean the person finds out what a limitless, vast and diverse world they live in, and that them being in the world adds to that richness!
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What a deliciously beautiful and amazing moon sits in the night sky at this very moment. She finally motivated me to "get my rear in gear" and post the Clan Mother for this moon. There really are no words for the inspiration, comfort, and overall, loving warmth she brings to my heart! I hope she touches yours as well. Give her a try!
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Tragedy - a lamentable, dreadful, or fatal event or affair; calamity, disaster. Those are the words the dictionary uses to define Tragedy. Indeed, a tragedy awakens the heart. We live in a world where our head (intellect) controls our life. And yet, when a tragedy happens it is our heart that feels the effects. Shock, disbelief, confusion seem to reign over our head (intellect) that we have no choice but to "stand still" while our heart aches.
Of recent, there seems to be many tragedies confronting people all over the world. However, it is the one that touches the life of someone we love that moves us into action. Whether it be a phone call, personal visit, or bringing food to the family of those in need, it is a natural reaction to reach out to those confronting a tragedy. Before our head (intellect) has a chance to make sense of it, we spring into action to connect to someone. It is the natural, instinctive human reaction.
This Friday night my heart reaches out to several people i know who are confronting truly tragic situations. I know how it feels to be in such a state of shock your head (intellect) cannot offer your heart comfort. I am reminded that our heart knows precisely what it needs to mend. However, first it needs to simply feel the depth of despair, fear, and confusion before it can begin to heal.
And, it all begins with the love shared by our family and friends. A single act of kindness, tears shared as we hold each other during such times are among the greatest healers. And, never underestimate the power of a prayer whispered either in person or from afar in the healing process. The heart feels all acts of love, and when love is expressed, tragedy begins to "shape shift" into strength. It is then our head (intellect) can begin to help us move into a place of compassion so that we may be of service to the next person who experiences a tragedy.
This Friday night, I am reminded that life is a circle and that love is the fuel that makes it turn.
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